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Dive deep into Genesis 49:3-4 with this powerful Bible study exploring the theme of spiritual instability through Reuben’s life, described as "unstable as water."

In this sermon, we unpack Jacob’s prophetic words to his firstborn son, Reuben, as he nears death, blessing and rebuking him for his potential and failure.

What does it mean to be "unstable as water"? How does spiritual instability rob us of God’s best? Join us as we examine Reuben’s story—his might, dignity, and power squandered by uncontrolled desires—and discover how to avoid his fate by finding steadfastness in Christ.

Imagine a bucket of water sloshing uncontrollably, spilling everywhere. That’s the vivid picture Genesis 49 paints of Reuben’s life. Jacob praises him as "my firstborn, my might, the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power," yet rebukes him: "Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel." Why? Reuben’s sin with Bilhah, his father’s concubine, revealed a lack of self-control and spiritual discipline, costing him his birthright and legacy.

This message isn’t just about Reuben—it’s a warning and a hope for us all in 2025. In this video, we explore three key points:

What is Spiritual Instability? – Wavering faith, double-mindedness, and a lack of firmness, like water shifting with every influence.

The Fruit of Instability – Lost potential, shame, and a wasted legacy, as seen in Reuben’s fall from firstborn privilege.

The Way to Stability – How to stand firm in Christ, rooted in God’s Word, with practical steps like prayer, fellowship, and godly routines.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction: Unstable as Water – Setting the Scene
2:15 – Genesis 49:3-4 Explained: Reuben’s Praise and Rebuke
5:40 – Spiritual Instability Defined: Wavering Like Water
10:25 – The Consequences of Instability: Reuben’s Lost Birthright
15:50 – Biblical Examples of Instability (James, Ephesians, and More)
20:10 – The Fruit of Instability: Shame, Ruin, and a Poor Testimony
25:35 – The Way to Stability: Building on the Rock of Christ
30:20 – Practical Steps: Prayer, Fellowship, and Godly Discipline
35:45 – Hope for the Unstable: God’s Grace in Reuben’s Story
40:00 – Conclusion: Be Steadfast, Not Sloshing Like Reuben

Why Watch This?
Reuben’s story is a sobering lesson for today’s Christians. Are you wavering like water, tossed by every wind of doctrine or temptation? Or are you planted like a tree by the river, thriving in faith?

Here's hope and practical wisdom to overcome spiritual instability. Whether you’re struggling with consistency, seeking a stronger walk with God, or simply curious about Genesis 49, this message will inspire you to pursue stability in Christ and excel for His glory.

Key Scriptures Explored:
Genesis 49:3-4 – "Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel."
James 1:6-8 – The double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.
Psalm 1:3 – Like a tree planted by rivers of water, flourishing.
Matthew 7:24-27 – Building on the rock vs. shifting sand.
Ephesians 4:14 – Tossed by every wind of doctrine.

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Reuben had it all—firstborn status, strength, dignity, power—but his instability cost him everything. What about you? Don’t let spiritual instability steal God’s best for your life. As Psalm 40:2 says, God can lift us from the miry clay and set our feet on the rock. In a world of shifting sands, Christ is our unshakable foundation. Let’s learn from Reuben’s failure and pursue a life of steadfastness, fruitfulness, and godly legacy.

Reuben’s impulsive sin with Bilhah wasn’t just a moment of weakness; it was rebellion against God’s order, a failure to lead as the firstborn should. Yet, there’s hope even for the unstable. Revelation 21:12 lists Reuben’s name on the New Jerusalem’s gates—proof of God’s grace. So, whether you feel like Reuben today or aspire to Joseph’s resolve, this sermon offers a path forward.

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What it means to live as God’s family—brothers and sisters united in Christ?

God desires a strong church. At the heart of that strength lies brotherly fellowship, a bond that reflects His love, grace, and purpose. Join us as we explore three key pillars of true Christian fellowship: brotherly unity, brotherly love, and brotherly kindness.

This sermon unpacks how we can live these out practically in our daily lives, fostering a church that’s good, pleasant, and blessed—just as Psalm 133 declares: "Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!"

What You’ll Discover in This Sermon
We break down the biblical blueprint for a thriving church family: Brotherly Unity: The foundation of fellowship. Unity isn’t just a nice idea—it’s a spiritual reality God creates by His Spirit. It is “one body and one Spirit”. Our unity in Christ, doctrine, and purpose binds us together. Satan hates this unity and sows discord, but we’re called to guard it with humility and grace.

Brotherly Love: The heartbeat of the church. Hebrews 13:1 urges, “Let brotherly love continue". Our Lord commands, John 13:34, “love one another as I have loved you.” This sacrificial, forgiving love—modeled by Christ—builds us up, not tears us down. Think of Philadelphia, the city of brotherly love; that’s the church God wants us to be!

Brotherly Kindness: Love in action. Peter tells us to “add to godliness brotherly kindness” (2 Peter 1:7). It’s the practical, tender expression of God’s grace—helping the weak, bearing burdens (Galatians 6:2), and speaking words seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6). Small acts of kindness reflect Christ and strengthen our fellowship.

Why This Matters
God shows us how to know true brotherly fellowship because it’s close to His heart. A united, loving, kind church isn’t just a blessing to us—it’s a witness to the world. The early church of Acts was “of one heart and one soul”. The world saw Christ in them. But Satan tries to divide us with murmuring, gossip, pride, and contention. This sermon exposes his tactics and equips you with tools to stand firm: humility to protect unity, sacrifice to show love, and grace to offer kindness.

Key Scriptures Explored
Psalm 133:1-3: Unity is like precious oil and refreshing dew—a commanded blessing from God.
Ephesians 4:3-4: Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
John 13:34-35: Love as Christ loves—a mark of true discipleship.
1 Corinthians 1:10: Speaking the same thing, perfectly joined in mind and judgment.
Galatians 5:13: By love, serve one another.
2 Peter 1:7: Add brotherly kindness to your faith.
Proverbs 6:16-19: God hates discord among brethren—let’s pursue “one accord” instead!

Practical Takeaways for Your Life
How can we live out brotherly unity, love, and kindness? This sermon offers actionable steps:
Stay Humble: Philippians 2:3 teaches us to esteem others better than ourselves.
Speak Grace: Avoid corrupt communication (Ephesians 4:29) and build others up.
Serve Others: Look for ways to forgive, encourage, and bear burdens.
Be Kind: Intentional acts—like a kind word or helping hand—reflect God’s heart.
Strive Together: Stand fast in one spirit, contending for the faith (Philippians 1:27).

Why Watch This Video?
If you’re seeking spiritual growth, a deeper connection with your church family, or practical ways to live out your faith, this sermon is for you. Whether you’re a longtime believer or exploring Christianity, you’ll find encouragement and biblical wisdom here. We address real challenges—like bitterness, division, and pride—and show how God’s Word transforms them into opportunities for growth and fellowship.

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Join the Conversation
What does brotherly fellowship mean to you? How can we strengthen our churches in 2025? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your thoughts! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more sermons on living as God’s family. Share this video with your church group or a friend who needs encouragement—it’s a message worth spreading!

A Challenge for You
Pick someone in your church this week to bless with a tangible act of kindness. Maybe it’s a note, a prayer, or a helping hand. Let’s make our fellowship good, pleasant, and a blessing, as God intends. As Hebrews 10:24-25 urges, let’s “provoke unto love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together… so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.”

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Consider: The Goodness of the Shepherd. John 10:9  I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture.

A message from preacher Romy Guevara.

I AM WITH YOU
Words by Chris Anderson; Music by Greg Habegger
Tune name: COLONIAL HILLS

I am with you, says the Father;
Through the floods, I calm and keep.
Though the swelling waves surround you,
I surround the waters deep.
Fear not, loved one; feel My presence.
You will never be alone.
Trust me, loved one; you are precious.
You are Mine—My very own.

I am with you, says the Savior,
Even to the age’s end.
Never leaving, nor forsaking,
I’m your ever-present Friend.
Fear not, loved one; hear My comfort:
None can pluck you from My hand.
Trust me, loved one; I am constant:
None can change what I have planned.

I am with you, says the Spirit,
There is nowhere you can flee.
Neither height nor depth can hide you;
Every place is home to Me.
Fear not, loved one; hear My witness:
You are God’s own child and heir.
Trust me, loved one; hear My whisper:
Deep within you, I am here.

Come be with Me, says the Master,
Greeting hopeful, homesick eyes.
I was with you in your journey;
Be with Me in paradise.
Fear not, loved one; know My promise:
I will surely, quickly come.
Trust me, loved one; know My purpose:
I will bring you safely home.

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What the Bible teaches about women’s roles in God’s divine plan; the power, dignity, and purpose of true femininity from a biblical perspective. Consider women’s roles in marriage, family, the church, and broader service. Full lecture notes at: bit.ly/women-study

Note God’s design: Genesis 1:26-27: “And God said, ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness… So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.’” Both men and women bear God’s image, sharing equal worth before Him. Yet, there’s purposeful distinction—only two genders, male and female, each with unique callings.

Women are integral to God’s creation, designed to complement men, not compete. The world may blur these lines, but Scripture holds firm: men and women together reflect God’s character; women showcasing traits like tenderness, nurturing, and relational sensitivity, mirroring God’s compassion, while men often reflect strength and leadership, like God, as a shield.

Women are helpers in Genesis 2:18: “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” From Adam’s rib, Eve was formed—not as a servant, but as a noble counterpart. She stands alongside man as his complement, bone of his bone, flesh of his flesh (Gen 2:23). In marriage, a wife supports her husband’s leadership, managing the home and nurturing children, creating a harmonious partnership that glorifies God.

Paul reinforces this in 1 Corinthians 11:3: “The head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God,” establishing an order of headship rooted in creation, not culture.

Men and women differ—physically, emotionally, and in purpose. Women, as lifebearers, a divine role. Emotionally, women often excel in verbal ability, emotional memory, and relational processing—skills vital for nurturing and community-building (Proverbs 31). Men, conversely, tend toward leadership and decision-making (1 Timothy 3:4). These differences aren’t social constructs; they’re woven into creation’s fabric, purposeful and beautiful.

Today’s culture rebels, denying distinctions, pushing interchangeability. Scripture counters this confusion, affirming God’s design as a gift, not a limitation.

In marriage and family, women are called to submission, modesty, and homemaking within God’s order. Ephesians 5:22-24 instructs, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.” Titus 2:4-5 adds that older women should teach the younger “to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands...” This reflects the creation sequence—Adam first, then Eve (1 Timothy 2:13)—and mirrors Christ’s relationship with the church. Submission isn’t weakness; it’s strength under control, a powerful testimony (1 Peter 3:1).

Proverbs 31:10-31 paints the virtuous woman: “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” She’s industrious, managing resources, devoted to her family, modest in conduct—her worth lies in character, not appearance. Titus 2 echoes this, urging women to prioritize home life, raising children, and maintaining a godly witness. Modern society devalues homemaking, but Scripture elevates it as a ministry with eternal impact. Modesty, too, is key—1 Timothy 2:9 calls for “modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety,” reflecting humility and reverence, not flashy trends (1 Peter 3:3-4).

In the fall Eve was deceived (1 Tim 2:14), stepping outside her role, usurping Adam’s authority, leading to disharmony. Sin’s effects linger, impacting service. Women retain influence (Proverbs 14:1: “Every wise woman buildeth her house”), but must wield it wisely—Abigail saved lives (1 Samuel 25), while Eve’s suggestion brought sin.

In ministry, women face restrictions: 1 Timothy 2:11-12 states, “Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.” “Silence” here means peacefulness. 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 adds, “Let your women keep silence in the churches… it is a shame for women to speak in the church,” addressing disorder in worship, not barring all speech. Women can’t preach or lead men authoritatively in church—pastors must be “the husband of one wife” (1 Timothy 3:2). Yet, their scope is vast: mentoring younger women (Titus 2), acts of charity (Dorcas, Acts 9), hosting (Lydia, Acts 16), and witnessing (Samaritan woman, John 4).

Despite a cultural push for women pastors (30% of mainline churches have them), Scripture holds firm. Feminism and apostasy fuel this rebellion. God builds—motherhood, marriage, family—while the world tears it down. Women, embrace your design! Serve faithfully as wives, mothers, mentors—your role glorifies God and strengthens His church.